rasa ingin menangis

Where are you..

Aku akan pergi... Membawa diri..

I choose my own way.. Sorry, never had the time to put watermarks.. whatever.. i just need some time alone...

JB GIVES BACK..BAYBEH BAYBEH OHH

The AWAITED concert of the world famous teen star, Justin Bieber will be held at Stadium Merdeka on 21 April, will create its own history when invited children less fortunate.

The idea was mooted as the main organizer of the concert Justin My World Tour in Malaysia, Tune Talk Mobile Prepaid remove the conditions unique to each VIP ticket holders in order to donate RM1, 000 to watch along with five of the children. Chief Operating Officer, Tune Talk, Jason Lo, when met said he was pleased with the unique concept of respect for other to watch, the whole of the proceeds to be channeled money for charity.

"It has become customary, in a big concert like this would have VIP seating available. So why not all VIP Ticket holders donate RM1, 000 and can be seen with 5 children less fortunate. 'In accordance with the attraction of this concert for children, we think this is the best time to celebrate those who are less fortunate. In addition the amount of the donation that will be tailored bagti charitable",

he said. He was found at a press conference after the first day of sale concert tickets, at the mall Bangsar Village, here this afternoon. Jason added, a total of 300 VIP seats will be available at the concert and it aims to raise RM100, 000 to RM200, 000 to be distributed to charity homes Nur Salam. Meanwhile, Jason is satisfied with the concert ticket sales even though it is sold first. "The more exciting when there are a number of teenagers who come here since 4 o'clock this morning just did not want to miss getting their idol concert tickets.

"Although sales of the first day is only open to customers Tune Talk, we believe that sales on the following days will be well received. Any or not, there come to buy 10 tickets at once,"

he who believes in concert to invite a total of 20.000 fans meet stadium. Tells little about the mega concert, Jason said a special press conference will be held on arrival the young stars in the capital. His case has not yet sure whether the sessions have the opportunity to meet fans in conjunction with the visit of the star. He said, Justin is expected to entertain the fans is about 2 hours and will highlight the opening performances of popular entertainers of the country. Justin my tickets World Tour in Malaysia in selling at the price of:

RM498

RM358

RM288

RM98

RM188

* also available through www.airasiaredtix.com and www.ticketpro.com and over the counter sales and TicketPro AirAsiaRedTix nationwide.

SOURCE : http://www.murai.com.my/article/default.asp?article_id=8793&c=1&s=1

Signature post coming!

Salam... Testing2 :)

The Effects of Glasses on People!

Isn't it funny how easily perceptions of people can change depending on whether or not they wear glasses. Don't know what I'm talking about??? Then have a look at this!

For those having trouble reading the text, it runs like this:Truck Driver/ Dr. ProfessorHells Angel/Fashion DesignerEasy/HardButcher/Artist

Source: http://www.funfacts.com.au/the-effects-of-glasses-on-people/

It happened to me.. HOW ABOUT YOU? -_-

Salam and good day readers..

Now, have u been in a very awkward situation.. me? ALWAYS!...actually..most of the time..and here are 'some' of the awkwards moments that i have been in and maybe u have too :

-When you finish your test early and you don’t want to be the first one to hand it in so you wait for someone else to do it first…

-When you comment on someones facebook status and they completely ignore your comment, but keeping answering everyone else’s comments...

-When B1 doesn’t know what B2 is thinking... (Banana's in Pyjamas)..Wierd..

-Dora the explorer's parents dont stop her on going anywhere anytime.. Knowing she always gets lost and ask fo help from strangers!

-When you say goodbye to someone and both walk the same way..

-When your mom calls you by your sibling’s name... Especially she only gets it right when all names has been called out..

-When you don’t forward a chain email and die..

-When you feel you’ve written the most LEGENDARY Facebook status ever….and nobody is “liking” or commenting...

-When you see Tom on facebook.*AWKWARD SILENCE*

-When you’re on messenger and you realize the only ‘online’ icon is you...maybe it's just me..

-When you accidently press “like” on someone’s Facebook status that you don’t know very well, and you don’t want to appear rude by “unliking” it...

-When some of these awkward moments were not really awkward.... *krik krik*

I guess thats for now * though i have lots more but to lazy to type ('_'#)*

Toodles!

Watermark is important!

Salam...

I just found out someone uploaded one of my pictures from my blog.. I know many has told me that i should put watermarks on all of my pictures.. Now i know why -_-...

So uolss too k... Who knows what these strangers might do with your pictures.. And currently mine.. To that someone.. I am thankful that you find my picture(s) is/are interesting enough to be part of your collection, still... if u ask.. its fine with me... May Allah protect us all...Wish i have a much more secure protection from strangers!

Here are some facts i found regarding to this situation.. Bear in mind as you may want to know for your future references..

Adding watermarks is an important way to protect your images from unauthorized copying and use. In fact, many designers believe that adding a watermark as a means of protection is effective only when it overlaps important image parts. This is quite logical because if you add the watermark on the side of the image, where there are no image details but only background, the watermark can easily be erased and replaced with background color or if this can't be done without a lot of hassle, then the part of the image with the watermark can be cut out and still most of your image will be usable.

This is a very unpleasant situation in those cases, when you want to use a watermark as a way to protect your image and the only solution you have is to put a watermark across the whole image so that the image details are still visible but the watermark cannot be erased unless erasing the whole image. It is a tradeoff between image protection and image usability but if you are seriously concerned about unauthorized use, this is the way to go.

However, in many cases even less severe measures are effective. For instance, when you want to add your logo as a watermark. The idea is that this way you will not put a technical but a legal barrier to unauthorized use, so you don't have to overlap important parts of the image in order to make them unusable without your permission. Or maybe you don't even need to prevent further use of your image but you'd like it to be distributed together with your copyright information. In this case adding a watermark that does not overlap important parts of the image is all you need.

No matter what kind of watermark you need - an overlapping one or not - the easiest way to add it to your image is with the help of special software, like ImageConverterPlus. Download the program and open it. If you want to add a watermark that overlaps important parts of the image, proceed straight ahead. If you want to add your logo as a sidebar, you need first to create a larger than your image transparent canvas, add the logo and then merge the two layers. In both cases you can use batch watermark adding, so in a second you can have all your images protected!

Source : http://www.imageconverterplus.com/help-center/article/watermark-overlaps-important-image-parts/

Thank You for the surprise :)

Salam everyone..

So, i was just wathcing tv with my mum.. Suddenly i heard the doorbell rang followed by a faint knock at the front door.. It was so very annoying at first as the doorbell is ranged constantly...

I rushed to the door and saw the 'courier guy' .. Hmmm??

I opened the door and he asked for..:

'"Cik Putri Salina Rais Ismail ada?"

" Ye saya, kenapa ya?"

"Here's a delivery for you, I need you to sign here..etc..etc"

A delivery for me?? After the approval.. I asked my mum if she oredered anything.. She said nothing she could think of...

To my surprise.. The package was a red box with ribbon on top.. I opened it and... IT WAS as shown in the picture:)

Still, the sender remained a mystery although i know who actually sent it.. Thanks sayang.. so sweet.. Its like something that is ordered and was sent directly to me.. Its just lovely... what touched me is the sincerity the 'sender' sent me.. Again b... Thank you :)

Toodles!:)

Blogging tips

Salam uolss...

Since i will be spending a lot of time blogging now...I would like to share sometips for all you new bloggers out there... There are a few things to consider before you contact any blog for link exchange, a few things on which you need to think on and a few things you should avoid while exchanging links. Lets discuss them!

1. Ask Blogs With The Same / Less PR Only For Link Exchange

Most of the bloggers ask high PR and popular blogs for link exchange. Suppose your blog has a PR-0 and you try exchanging links with PR-5 blogs, do you think any such blog will accept your offer? I bet NO!

A few days back a person contacted me saying that no blog is ready for exchanging links with my PR-0 blog. I thought at least PR-0 blogs should accept his offer. Then I wondered for a moment and emailed him for sites he had contacted for link exchange. The first site was Tech Crunch, next was Mashable and the high profile blog list continued. I wondered again why those sites will exchange links? I was happy that he didn’t contact Google for link exchange! Choose a blog for link exchange wisely is all that I want to suggest.

2. Don’t Exchange Links With Adult Sites / Auto Sites

Exchanging links with such sites is like destroying our site’s search engine ranks. Links from such sites hardly add any value. Links from auto blogs or sites and adult sites may harm your site badly. They may perhaps spoil all your SEO! So always try avoiding links with such sites.

3. Avoid Exchanging Links With Blogs Not Related To Your Blog Niche

Suppose you own a technology blog and you you exchange links with sports blogs, the links swill hardly add any value to your search engine rankings and page rank. Instead Google may penalize your site for such links. So always try avoiding link exchange with unrelated sites or blogs.

4. Make Sure You Get Do Follow Links

Some sites under pretext of link exchange may give you no-follow links. So before exchanging links always make sure the links you receive are do follow because no follow links won’t give you any link juice. After link exchange always check if the link is do follow.

5. Permanent Links Are Useful, Temporary Are Useless

Permanent links are useful for a blog SEO, while temporary links are very harmful. So try exchanging links with reliable bloggers and sites so that your link stays on their blog or site for a long time and not just a few weeks or months.

CREDIT TO : http://www.bloggingjunction.com/blog-link-building-tips/

Increase your blog traffic in an instant and fast baby!

Salam...i was just browsing to my friend's blog...and i found something interesting that you may like...it is an article on how to increase your taffic at your blog.

Just follow these simple steps:

1. Write /post an article like this one, or copy-paste this article. Then give an interesting topic.

2. Simply put the URL Link below for the article that you write in a blog / web.


1. My Big Family & Friends

2. ABCMILO

3. matdin

4. MSR @Blogger

5. tengku nizam

6. mizz shizu

7. Myself V3 Me &

8. Blog Hanz

9. BeMie's WoRLd

10. Farah Shafiqah

11 . Qila Razak

12. CekLa

13. Miss Yaty

14. Magrib menjelma

15. Put2!!

RULES!

1. Before you put the web-site at the URL in the Link community to post web / blog, please delete the link number 1.

2. Later move the no.2 link to the no.1 link which you have already deleted it before.

3.After that put your link in the sequence below (No.15 ).*** So the sequence will look like this

1. ABCMILO

2. matdin

3. MSR @Blogger

4. tengku nizam

5. mizz shizu

6. Myself V3 Me &

7. Blog Hanz

8. BeMie's WoRLd

9. Farah Shafiqah

10 . Qila Razak

11. CekLa

12. Miss Yaty

13. Magrib Menjelma

14. Put2!!

15. Your blog URL


4. Remember! Do not Change the link order list. If every blogger to follow the formula, it will generate backlinks as follows:


When you position the No.15, the number of backlink = 1
No.14 position, number of backlinks = 5
no.13 position, Number backlink = 25
No.12 position, number of backlinks = 125
no.11 position, Number backlink = 625
No. 10 position, The backlink = 3.125
no.9 position, total backlink = 15.625
No.8 position, number of backlinks = 78.125
No. 7 position, Number backlink = 390.625
No. 6 position, number of backlinks = 1,953,125
No.5 position, number of backlinks = 9,765,625
No.4 position, number of backlinks = 48,828,125
No.3 position, number of backlinks = 244,140,625
No.2 position, number of backlinks = 1,220,703,125
No.1 position, total backlink = 6,103,515,625

We are equally successful by attempting this .... Good luck !!!*** Remember ... do not cheat ... helping fellow bloggers to get a lot of trafic ... Do not Forget to promote the link of this post as well.. especially to your fellow bloggers friend ..

Source from
: http://magribmenjelma.blogspot.com/2010/12/cara-cepat-nak-naik-kan-traffic-anda.html#ixzz1AjBLCDYl

The beauty in me?

Salam... What's the beauty that I meant? I actually have no idea.. All I see is one hungry girl waiting for her order...eat your heart out for cholesterol ! I know I will eventually die at a very young age if this continues...so, I would like to say my goodbye to...

What...wait! I'm not dying *yet*.. Hehe...actually this is my first time posting using email...kinda F.U.N baby!
Sent by Maxis from my BlackBerry® smartphone

love is about everything

Salam and good morning peeps!

Its like 7:33 am and im still wide awake.. today i'll be going out...Where you might ask? Anywhere.. Anywhere that i can find peace at heart..

No, im not having problems..no.. i just want to express my love and gratefulness that im still alive to be looking at what Allah has created for us.. Such a wonderful and beautiful world indeed... If i am a billionaire, i would love to visit the 1000 beautiful places in the world before i die.. Yes..i would love to cherish my moment with mother nature..with Allah gift for us...

Sometimes we dont appreciate what we have now... we often complained about so many things...some are just not worth complained...other people have bigger problems..they dont complain..but they are grateful that Allah still give them Iman..faith in their heart to be patient in any obstacles to come...

I was just browsing the internet and i accidently bumped into a very interesting blog.. its about my religion...our religion(islam).. the beauty of Islam can be felt when we cherish the wonderous and magic of islam..first of all..our knowledge towards Islam..

How well do we know our religion? Are we true Muslim or just by name..think about it...

We are definitely not getting any younger.. never think that you should repent when u r old..or after marriage.. why not start now.. just as a first step towards a more secure place at the Hereafter...

Allah swt gave us a beautiful feeling...which is love... He gave it to us... But why are there so many people prefer to give what they have to others rather than thicken the love they receive back to The Almighty Allah..

I once read.. That you will know the meaning of love if u love ALLAH first.. He who decides our future..

I guess this is just for now.. What a lovely day to start...have a great day too guys.

Toodles!

Loving Allah...

Salam...

I have been thinking about so many things.. somehow...my mind kept reminding me about this..about loving Allah...

The definition of belief in the Qur'an is complete devotion to Allah and Allah alone. The Hereafter is absolutely inescapable. The believer is devoted to Allah because he knows he will certainly give an account of everything he did in the world. Everything a person owns in the world such as health, intelligence, beauty, wealth, career, good standards of living, spouse, children, and other blessings such as food and clothing are all from Allah and is defined by Allah down to the finest detail. There is no provider other than Allah. The true believer knows this undeniable fact and so loves and glorifies Allah ceaselessly. Surely the one who has given everything is deserving of the greatest love and respect. He never dares to attribute the source of these blessings to any worldly being, to himself, or anyone else, nor does he love any being as he loves Allah.“Allah is most compassionate and most merciful to mankind” (Qur’an 22:65)When people forget Allah and pay no heed to the true religion, they begin to love and chase after objects in life thinking they exist independent of Allah, deceived into thinking that these objects have an existence outside of Allah, who is the One who actually originates them. In Quranic terms, being devoted to objects independent of Allah is associating partners with Allah.

"...Then, when We grant him a blessing from Us he says, 'I have only been given this because of my knowledge.' In fact it is a trial but most of them do not know it." (Qur'an 39:49)

For a believer, the good things in life given to him by Allah, is merely ways to get nearer to Allah. He does this by praising Allah for each and every blessing no matter how disguised it may be. For example, the believer is grateful to Allah for his healthy heart and eyes, this leads him to work more righteously in life as Allah requires him to do so. If he 'loves' anything or any being in life, he does so only so he can increase in his love for Allah and to render thanks to Him. Indeed, that is the purpose of all the blessings Allah has provided people. For example, the believer may love his spouse, this makes him thank and love Allah even more and in no way does he consider this love to have originated from any other than Allah. It is all from Allah. In this way, everything on earth is given to us so we can be more devoted to Allah, and follow His commands as described in the Qur'an. If the believer looses anyone or anything of attachment in the world, he really has not lost anything so long as he has love for Allah and continues to be devoted to Him. When love for objects or human figures, living or of the past, take an independent standing outside the realm of Allah, a person's purpose of living is faulty and he is only following his own vain desires and not Allah. For instance, a person acquires material wealth without duly thanking Allah or a person who ‘idolises’ an individual due to love for that person outside and beyond the love of Allah, for instance, celebrities, football players, family, scientists, and religious figures.

“Have you considered the one who has taken his own desire as his god? Allah has, knowing him as such, allowed to be strayed? Sealing his ears and heart and covering his eyes – who can guide such a person after Allah has done this? Will you not take heed?” (Qur’an 45:23)

The believer’s only motive on earth is to earn the good pleasure of Allah and only Allah’s approval, no one else’s.Having now seen the kind of superior understanding of faith and way of life of a true believer, it becomes easier to see that disbelievers are always committing great wrong when they consume Allah's blessings without making it a way to increase in love of Allah and draw nearer to Allah. Indeed, they are arrogant about accepting Allah as the originator of the blessings and deny Him altogether. They begin to venerate human beings and themselves for every blessing they are given and chase after objects thinking they are outside of Allah's originating power. Allah explains this in the Qur'an:

"Yet, there are those who chose to worship others beside Allah as rivals to Him, loving them as they should love Allah, but the believers have greater love for Allah" (Qur'an 2:165)

Knowing that Allah is the source of every single blessing on earth, the true believer derives the greatest pleasure from the worldly blessings Allah has provided for him, while also earning Allah's Paradise in the Hereafter.The hidden idolatry committed by most people is because their hearts do not reflect on the Qur'an which calls them to true faith by providing necessary lessons and admonitions. They therefore have given themselves no possibility of bringing themselves to true faith. Only the Qur'an explains to people the true sense of faith.

Unfortunately, this form of hidden idolatry we are discussing is not just restricted to disbelievers. Even many so-called Muslims, who think they are practicing religion, also fall into this hidden idolatry. For example, some Muslims profess their love for Prophet Muhammad readily and are full of praises and glory for the Prophet. Amazingly, the same does not hold true for Allah. Upon a closer analysis, we find that their case is no different from all the other ignorant people who fail to accept true faith in Allah and fail to love and glorify Allah independent of anything else.

"When you mention your Lord alone using the Qur'an, they turn their backs and run away." (Qur'an 17:46)

Islam is purely and simply a complete surrendering of ones soul to the Almighty Creator and His purpose in Creation. This is actually a comprehension more than anything else. Only the Qur'an provides accurate information on how to attain true faith and comprehension, which is free of corruption, the kind required by Allah in order to be successful in the Hereafter. All Muslims must make sincere attempts to understand what true faith is by taking serious responsibility to study faith directly from the Qur'an, before it is too late. Until a person does this, there can be no chance of true faith.

TO MISS/MR ANON

Salam...

Dear Miss Anon... Why ? Seriously why are you being so mysterious.. I am not sure who u are...but i think i know you who..just am not very sure.. Some of your comments have to be deleted due to your 'beautiful' and 'well-mannered' words ('_'*)...

Still tq for your comments although i know that you are a coward for not wanting people to know who you really are...

Toodles...

Again, another post

Salam...

Here, there, EVERYWHERE! Im so fedup of it! My skin is currently being ruined by an unknown insect maybe located inside my own home or maybe the neighbourhood! After few mysterious bites, i realised that the scar is still there..Its like polka dots on my skin! You may find it kinda 'vintagy' but its painful and ..sort of..."what"?...

I JUST CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE... rAsHeS! *THOUGH STILL HOPING ITS NOT RASHES*

TOODLES!

p/s : i would love to share some pictures of similar examples to my case, but the results shown by Google changed my mind ('_'^)

random

i cant fit the ring... i need to workout!

I HATE YOU

Salam..


I hate you because :

- you think you're the only one with problems in this world
- you are a terrible secret keeper
- you only need me when you feel u needed me
- you called when you have problems though it has been some time since we kept in touch
- you feel that you are always the victim about everything
- you are a liar...

Actually.. I dont like to point finger to anyone... But if anyone who reads this felt it's him/her... Better wake up and smell the coffee.. Seriously, everyone hates you actually.. I admit people hate me too.. I bet you hate me too.. This is how i express on how i really feel about you.. I can't take it anymore!

We had our rough times together, fun , sad and laughter.. But, As time passes by, I learned from my past.. My history.. Come to think of it.. You were never 'there' when i need you.. You were only there when you need something or need someone to talk too... Its all about you! Im so sick of it... IM SORRY, BUT THATS THE TRUTH!

No, i don't feel good typing this post... But i feel that i need too.. Because i want to... I pity you actually.. Yes i do.. You gave people advice, but you yourself is not adviced by your advices, get the advice? Hahaha...

Boo Hoo... I am so sad... Well im not... Take this as a piece of my mind to you, so that you will actually open your eyes on what people actually thinks about you.. Get a life.. again... GET A LIFE!

-Adapted from my heart-

Hahahaha... Actually, this is nothing... Okay, snap to reality! This is a session i had with my friend.. She wants me to type it out... Why? This is called expression.. Actually she always wanted a blog but to lazy to update and even create one.. She hates to think..Hehehehe...

This is one of the way for you to express yourself... Apart from scribbling, doodling or throwing things? Okay2...Maybe not throwing things as if that happens, you have to sign up for an anger management course..hehe

What matters to me , what is real to me, is inspiring and helping people. Directly or indirectly, whenever I’m able to help someone solve a really tough problem or to motivate someone to finally push past a big obstacle, that is something I find tremendously fulfilling. And the fulfillment I get from doing this is so great that it trumps all the external stuff. It doesn’t matter how much money I make. It doesn’t matter if people reject my ideas or poke fun at what I enjoy doing. This blog entry may be read by over 1000 people, but it may be such that the ideas within are only able to help one person in a very small way. The other 999 may conclude I’m nuts and unsubscribe. And that’s fine. It’s that one person I’m writing for. It's you buddy :)

Live for what is real to you. Live for what truly matters to you.

Toodles!

Epy New Year Now Clap!

Salam..

2011...NOT YET 2...0....1....2....ala2 jay sean...*hate that song*

Anyways...yay....hehe....its a new year again...clappady clap...lala...


My new year's resolutions are...Actually..ermm...i dont care about it anymore...year after year...less than 50% are achieved...the rest are just kept in my list of 'hopes and dreams that im too lazy to achieve'...hahaha...


I spent my new year's eve first at Bangsar Village.. Then we went to meet Eric..The guy who sells blackberry housings and repair em too...



Later we went to pavilion to meet my oldest c's with her friend

...and it was packed! i mean sardine packed! like this:


So, what are your new year's resolutions? feel free to leave some by commenting this post...i bet you guys are so not like me...lazu and fat! ...but i dont care... i have somebody to love and to be loved...my hubby..hahaha....

"e.u!! geli dowh.."

"seriously??!"

"#$%^&"

hahaha...wth..im just being honest...

Okay2...flashback people!

2010

Quite a year...it started of as a good year..still who could run away from problems and challenges??

Typical and cliche problems..or undeniebly hard and almost suicidal problems...it all happened..not only to me...maybe you guys went through it..

still...you guys still manage to fix it..and here you are...reading my messy blog..hahaha...praise yourself and be thankfull...Alhamdulillah....

So..like u n me..we are just humans..with feelings and lust...if u can manage ur mind...u can manage ur life...

All the best ollssss

Love yaa...

Toodles!

Assam Pedas and marinated beef

Salam uols
Today i'll be sharing with you guys on how to cook assam pedas and sweet marinated beef that is cooked to perfection.. Before i go any further, i know some might ask and say :

" deyh, this blog about what? first relationships and such..then suddenly recipe pulak?"

" Im confused! "

Okay2..my blog is about my life ..this is my blog, so i can do whatever i want.. its either u r interested or not..dead simple people! huih..

Anyways...i do appreciate uolss nya interest in following my blog>> TQ BAYBAYY

Back to the recipes...

Assam pedas

A fish Tenggiri or Stingray – ‘Pari’
5 okras
10 dried chilies
2 cloves of garlic
5 cloves of shallot
1 cm of ginger
1 cm of turmeric
1 lemon grass
1 teaspoon of fish curry powder
1 tablespoon of tamarind (put into a cup of warm water an squeeze the juice)
Sugar to taste
Salt to taste

HOW TO:

Blend chilies together with garlic, shallot, ginger and turmeric. Heat oil and fry the blended paste with lemon grass until fragrant. Add fish curry powder and stir well. Then add tamarind juice and two cups of water. Wait to boil. Finally add okras, fish and salt and sugar to taste. Wait for 2-3 minutes for fish to cook.

Easy right? Believe me..the results is to die for!


Marinated beef



1kg of prime beef or beef on bone (cut into small cubes)
1/2 cups of dark soy sauce
2 Onions
-one finely blend and one sliced into four
2-3 tablespoons of sugar
5 tablespoons of chili sauce
3 tablespoons of tomato sauce
1 cup of water
Salt to taste
Cooking oil

How to:

Blend the asterisk ingredients. Marinade beef with dark soy sauce, sugar and blended asterisk ingredients. Rest aside for about an hour (overnight is recommended). Heat up some oil in a wok. Stir fry the marinated beef until just cooked. In a bowl mix together the chilli sauce, tomato sauce with a cup of water. Then add the mixture into the wok. Continue to stir until the sauce thickens. Finally add sliced onion and salt to taste.

sorry i had to grab some pictures from Google *thankies* because i did not have the chance to snap these two dishes as it finished as fast as lightning! Alhamdulillahh...

I guess this is all for now.. Enjoy the recipe...u'll love it...promise:)

Toodles!

Seriously? Yes.. Seriously it happens..

Many people are of the mindset that physical attraction has no explanation. If you are attracted to someone, you just are attracted. There’s no rhyme or reason to it and there’s nothing you can point your finger at that would explain ‘why’. However, science tells us that there are specific reasons why we are attracted to some people and not attracted to others - and our genetic composition or makeup has a lot to do with who gets our heart’s beating fast.

Many of us like to think that we aren’t prejudice, or that we don’t prejudge, who we choose to hang out with, hire for employment or become friends with at work based on appearances. Yet, research has shown that people who have physical appearances that are the most appealing to the general population are more likely to be selected for jobs, get the best tables at restaurants, receive preferential treatment and they are more likely to be approached for friendships.

Whether we know it or not our brains are judging people up based on how healthy they appear and this information is judged subconsciously by a person’s face symmetry. If our brains are being that judgmental for non-romantic connections… it goes into overdrive when it comes to romantic connections.

In regards to romantic relationships, a person’s personality and intelligence can attract us, but it’s their biology or genetic makeup that gets our attention first - and it can close the deal. When we are interacting with a potential romantic partner our brains are sizing them up and judging whether they are showing of producing suitable offspring . All we know is we are attracted… our hearts may beat faster, our breathing may speed up and we may feel butterflies tickling our insides. All of these feelings are nature’s way of alerting us that the person we are interacting with is a good reproduction match for us.

Women should know that hormone levels can complicate these impulses. Hormones can greatly impact how we judge people. Many women have said they felt attracted to someone, only to lose interest the next time they were together. If this has happened to you, chalk it up to hormones.

What is considered beautiful or attractive by the world’s view changes with the times. What was considered ideal clothing, body shapes and hair styles a hundred or so years ago isn’t the same today. These ‘culture ideas’ of beauty change fast - sometimes decade by decade. However, our brains are wired so that no matter the era, it is seeking out a particular standard of beauty/health in a partner that is ideal for us as individuals. The standard are brains operate within is often a general result of the society or region we live in and it has little to do with trends.

The brain knows when it’s within range of a good match. Have you ever met someone and felt like you couldn’t think straight when he was around? Did you feel that you were behaving oddly? Did you feel that all reason flew out of your mind and that you were simply drawn to this person like a magnet? Attraction breaks through common sense and even intelligence. You may know you’re acting like a fool, but you can’t help yourself. All you know is you want to get closer. It’s only after we get to know the other person that these overpowering feelings dissipate a bit so we are able to get to know the person’s true self, focus on who he is as an individual and possibly develop something concrete with him.

The debate will continue as to whether attraction is purely a result of a biological process. Yet, whether the reason is biological, emotional or cultural, we generally will never be able to predict who will send our radar’s off. We just know when we do feel it. The next time someone you meet someone and you are drawn in like a moth to a flame and you wonder ‘why’ - perhaps he doesn’t meet the idea of what you think you should be attracted to - take a moment to realize that there’s more than just your own personal ideas involved in attraction. Nature works in mysterious ways and often times it doesn’t care whether you agree if the attraction should be there or not. It is just there.